Well hello there, nice to see you decided to drop in once again.
Today topic is quite easy: Do you know what makes you feel good? Well clearly you say to yourself, it hanging out with friends, reading and extreme biking! Well maybe not. Have you ever being judge for what you like?
Oh do you really enjoy playing video games, I think it major waste of time! This a complete waste of money, you could bought the same shirt for way less. Omg, I don’t think that a right way to use your time
This is similar to being told our dreams are not good, which I’ll cover in different post in the future. This negative remarks of what will do with our free times and how we bring joy into our lives, can be incredibly damaging to our self-worth and joy. Because we judge our activities has having no value. Even so they actually personally inriched us.
Oh man I’m idiot look how many hours I spend on this. Ricky, says should do something better with my time
And why? Because we allow people to draw lines, that we should be drawing.
And while others are telling us and measuring our happiness, it will never be yours. Because I go back to the same question, what makes you feel happy?
What makes you guys feel happy? What some of the activities you been judge over? Did you change them, and if so did what you replace them make you feel happier?